Disabled guy looking for genuine help - Hampshire

I'm 48 male and trying to reach out to another male who would feel comfortable helping me with a few things I'm too embarrassed to ask my mates to do.

I live in the centre of Southampton

Just to stress... I’m not looking for anything s*xual so please don’t suggest this in your reply.

I have cerebral palsy & find it quite stressful to shower & check myself for lumps etc.

If anyone is happy to help - please let me know and tell me a bit about yourself.

Unfortunately I can't afford to pay you

Please note I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING S*XUAL- Sorry to put that in capital letters but I keep receiving messages from people who are misreading my post.